There are a
lot of things in this world that are intimidating. Your first foray into the stock market or
your first public speaking engagement and surgery for example can be pretty unnerving.
Then, there
are the things in life that are downright frightening – like finding a snake in
your bathtub or re-wiring your own home. Scary in different way, maybe, but
either of these can lead to a 9-1-1
call.
There’s not
a lot we can do about snakes. Snakes
happen. But unless you’re an engineer or
an electrician, you’d better leave the electricity to the experts.
If you’re
considering buying a house, one of the most unnerving and intimidating parts of
the process is the actual offer. How
much is enough? How much is too
little? How does the price of this house
fit into the prices of the other houses in this neighborhood?
Location,
location, location is really
important, but paying too much for a house in a great location is not what anyone wants to do.
On the
other side, if you’re the seller, you have the same problem in reverse. You don’t want to sell for too little, but
you also don’t want to overprice your home.
Overpricing is the quickest way to a house that sets records for most
days on the market.
This is not
an award you want to receive.
But, I Don’t Know What to Do!
Researchers
say that stress is caused by a situation that is out of our control. In addition, our sense of stress is only magnified
by situations where we don’t know what to do.
Enter the
real estate negotiation. Sellers have no control over what a buyer will offer,
buyers have no control over what a seller will accept.
And no one knows what to do. Or even what
the rules are.
Though life
would be simpler if there were some hard and fast rules for negotiating,
unfortunately, there just aren’t. There
are, however, some guidelines that will be helpful when you’re deciding what to
offer on a house. Or deciding how to
counteroffer.
Information is King
Let’s start
with the offer. If you’re working with a Realtor, take advantage of all he/she has to offer. Although a Realtor, depending on agency laws
in your state, could make recommendations, it is your money. Only you know
how you want to spend it.
If you
haven’t already received it, have your agent run you the comparable sales
in the neighborhood. These constitute the best way to determine what you’ll
eventually pay for your new house. The
information you’ll receive is some of the precise information an appraiser
will use to determine value for your lender.
It’s true
that every buyer is looking for a “deal”.
At the same time, every seller is looking to make the most out of their
home.
Don’t forget this. To you, it’s a great house or you wouldn't be
making an offer. But that great house is
the seller’s home. Maybe their
children have grown up there. Maybe,
it’s the place they've gathered around the tree on Christmas mornings. Their memories have happened there.
When you’re
deciding what to offer for a house, don’t forget there’s a sentimental
attachment on the seller’s side. Ignore
that sentiment and you might offer so low, the seller is insulted. When that happens, you’ll watch your “deal”
fly out the window.
And you
could be looking for another option.
And In This
Corner…
Information
is still king. A look at what houses have sold for in your neighborhood will
tell you approximately what to expect when you’re listing your home.
It’s hard
to look at things from the buyer’s side, but it’s best to put aside your
sentimentality and be practical.
Although you may love your home and you have no doubt paid attention to
every detail, don’t forget an appraiser will be the final say in what your
house is worth. It won’t help if the
buyers agree to pay full price and find out the bank won’t lend on it because
it won’t appraise.
A quick
word about appraisers: Some things that
are a definite improvement to a home, such as landscaping or a new roof, don’t
add one shiny dime to the appraised value.
Appraisers have guidelines that force them to concentrate on the
structure itself, not any of the landscaping or even a pool. You’d be shocked to learn how little value an
appraiser places on a pool. Even though
it cost you thousands of dollars to install, you’ll only get a fraction of that
on the appraisal. And new roofs are essential. Bft it already had a roof,
right?
There is an
old adage that all Realtors know. Your first buyer is almost always your best
buyer. If your house has been on the
market only a short time and you got an offer, be glad. Be thrilled, even. It’s tempting to think, “If I got this offer
so quickly, someone will pay my full price.”
Maybe. After several more months
of showings.
Perhaps
As your granddaddy probably said, “a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush”. Especially, when you might have to wait six
months for that second bird.
And The Winner Is…
When the
buyers have the right information, they’ll know what they should offer for a
home.
The seller
will already know what to expect because he did his homework before he listed.
So who wins
in a negotiation? You do.
And it wasn't scary at all.